HOUSTON — Día de Los Muertos is around the corner, and many local families have already started making altars or “ofrendas” to honor those who have passed.
But for the family of Arlene Alvarez, who lost their 9-year-old, this is a chance to reconnect with her.
It’s been a labor of love for the Alvarez family for the last two years. The family of 9-year-old Arlene has poured their heart into a new holiday: Día de Los Muertos, or the Day of the Dead.
"It's very difficult to decorate for my baby like this. I am used to decorating for her differently -- her birthdays, holidays -- this is heartbreaking," Arlene's mother, Wendy Alvarez, said.
On Nov. 1 and 2, they along with many families, will celebrate those who have died. It’s a time to welcome their spirits back with offerings left for them in altars. And for the Alvarez family, they plan to welcome Arlene with open arms.
"It’s kind of an excitement for me to have her here I guess that day," Wendy said.
Arlene was shot and killed on Valentine’s Day in 2022 when a man fired his gun toward a robber but hit Arlene in her family's truck instead. Tony Earls is charged with Arlene’s murder and is awaiting trial.
"We have gone this far fighting for her justice. An innocent little baby. We just need that so she can rest in peace," said Wendy.
That fight is set aside for this week as they continue to set up their ofrenda.
"I am not done with my altar but yes I am going to create a path for my baby so whenever she comes she is able to see what mommy crafted," said Wendy.
They’ve placed photos of Arlene along with incense, water, cempasuchil, or marigolds, and sweets and they will place all her favorite foods. Everything has a special meaning. As they believe for those two days the spirits of their loved ones return to enjoy a visit with their friends and relatives.
"It’s kind of an excitement my daughter will come and enjoy her favorite food. Her favorite things she loves," said Wendy.
A bittersweet feeling, for a holiday her family wishes, they would never have to celebrate.
"If you don’t have to do an altar, consider yourself lucky. Decorating an altar for your daughter or son or loved one is very heartbreaking," said Wendy.
But despite that, the family says, they’re embracing it. Pouring their hearts and love into commemorating their 9-year-old little girl.
"I think she is going to love it hopefully," said Wendy.
A girl gone too soon but never forgotten.